recipes for hapinness




friendship
Ingredients:
As many cups of love as you can carry.
One sturdy shoulder (two is better)
An ear that will listen.
A heart that can feel.
A soul that will respond.
Laughter, giggles, and a few tears.
Never-ending supply of kind words.
A large supply of hugs, kisses, and more hugs.
Preparation:
Get out the biggest bowl you can find. Add together the cups of love you carried, don't worry about spilling any, you always should have extra just in case. Sometimes in preparation of a friendship, tears may fall. This is where the shoulder will come in handy. Like I said, two is better, especially if the first one gets tired or wet. This is also where the ear part comes in; sit back, shoulders ready for your friend to lay his/her head upon, and listen. In preparing a friendship you will need a heart that is capable of feeling. Not just a warm feeling in your heart, but a pull so strong that you feel as if there is no comparison to any other feeling you may have for someone else. If your recipe has survived this far, then you are doing good. This is where the soul comes in. I believe that we all have a soul. But, in a true friendship, the soul will respond as if you and your friend are as one. Yes, you will feel your soul. Do not be afraid, there is nothing wrong with this recipe. Add laughter, giggles, and tears to the above ingredients, and you are in for a special treat that so few people know how to make. In a true soul to soul friendship, there will be laughter. There will be giggles, and there will also be tears (this is where the shoulders come in). now, don't panic. You've come this far, we are almost near the end. Kind words and commitment. Need I say anymore? Mix all of these ingredients together, and I promise you a wonderful, eternal friendship and with this will come all the hugs and kisses that you will ever need. You simply have to ask. Or, if the friendship is really mixed well, you may never have to ask. It will be a given.




smiling

It Can Do Wonderful Things
If at times you feel you want to cry,
And life seems such a trial;
Above the clouds there's a bright blue sky,
So make your tears a smile.



As you travel on life's way,
With its many ups and downs;
Remember its quite true to say,
One smile is worth a dozen frowns.



Among the world's expensive things,
A smile is very cheap;
And when you give a smile away,
You get one back to keep. 


 Steps to happiness 
 
Everybody Knows: You can't be all things to all people. 

You can't do all things at once. 

You can't do all things equally well. 

You can't do all things better than everyone else. 

Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's. 

So: 

You have to find out who you are, and be that. 

You have to decide what comes first, and do that. 

You have to discover your strengths, and use them. 

You have to learn not to compete with others, 

Because no one else is in the contest of being you. 

Then: 

You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness. 

You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions. 

You will have learned to live with your limitations. 

You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due. 

And you'll be a most vital mortal. 

Dare To Believe: 

That you are a wonderful, unique person. 

That you are a once-in-all-history event. 

That it's more than a right, it's your duty, to be who you are. 

That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish. 

And you'll be able to stay one up on what used to get you down.
  
                                 
value of a smile
A smile cost nothing, but gives much. 

It enriches those who receive, 
without making poorer those who give. 
It takes but a moment, 
but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. 

None is so rich or mighty that he can get along without it, and none is so poor but that he can be made rich by it. 

A smile creates happiness in the home, 
fosters good will in business, 
and is the countersign of friendship. 
It brings rest to the weary, 
cheer to the discouraged, 
sunshine to the sad, 
and is nature's best antidote for trouble. 

Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, 
for it is something that is of no value to anyone 
until it is given away. 

Some people are too tired to give you a smile. 
Give them one of yours, 
as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.

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